TRUE LOVE

LOVE is not a feeling. Love is an action. Love is a choice.
True Love is the action to choose unconditionally in the process of offering to another human being the qualities of:
Affection, Care, Concern, Respect, Thoughtfulness, Forgiveness, Compassion, Trust, Joy and many other positive emotional expressions of value and worth toward ANY living being as being Loveable and valuable.

Love is just love. Love is not trading of emotions, it cant be compared to a savings bank account where u deposit emotions n withdraw care. Love is pure , its impulsive , its unbreakable , it cant be compared to a broken string because love cannot be broken it can only be paused for a while.

When you see each other and have a smile on your face, when your loved one makes a mistake and you can't get angry on him even when you try hard. When you think of spending every possible time with your loved one.
This is true love

"True love" can and will differ from person to person based on emotional maturity. To know true love you not only must love in such a way that you would give your own life at the drop of a hat to save him/her. If you get married to someone, and fifteen years later, you can still look them in the eye and feel the same you did on your first date, then it's true love. Like the below quote; a good way to know true love is to base it on how you feel for the last person you love romantically in your life.


I get choked up telling her how much I care about her.
- I feel pain every time she hurts.
- every couple I see reminds me of her.
- everything I want to do I want to do with her.
- I have a craving for something I crave it with with her.
- it still excites me when she calls.
- telling each other we love each other means more each time.
- I know that I love her more now than I did yesterday.
- I can be my absolute self with her and she can do the same.
- her beauty in my eyes never fades.
- we can disagree and still compromise with each other.

True love: is hard to find and painful to lose,
-can be the best thing that happens to you or the worst,
- can drive you crazy or keep you sane,
-can destroy lives or save them,
-can stop wars or start them,
-can clarify or confuse,
-pushes and pulls people away,
-obvious and subliminal, is impossible to define

-When one is aware of shortcomings of the partner and yet accepts.
-When the ego does not come in between in differences and one would rather clear the air, or apologise and patch up, than break-up.
-When one 'desires' the partner in his/her life.
-When you 'chose' to be with him/ her inspite of other options - not bec there are no options !
When you give each other space and respect individuality.
-When you enjoy togetherness - talking or even silence - and tender touching.
-When you cant even think of hurting or insult the partners feeling.
-You never wish him/ her ill and would never harm in any way.
This is true love.

Like true love the topic is also 'endless'.

The love that brings a woman a man together is known as the third level of love. This level is among the strongest of them all.This kind of love has brought together families that have argued for years and years, such as in the Shakespearean play, Romeo and Juliet. Even though the two mentioned made a big mistake in the end, it still brought their families together.

The phrase, love makes the world go round is very true. It's is our driving force, is gives us the necessary power to survive in this world that for many has no meaning for what ever reason it may be. Poems, plays, and legends can only briefly touch the true meaning of love. We can only feel what that meaning is, and express it in ways only we can understand towards another. Its the "language of the world" which makes it possible for the women and men to bond together in a relationship, or marriage. The language of the world is know by everybody no matter what part of the world they are coming from. If you look a woman in the eye and she looks back at you in that special way that cant be explained there is no need for words. No need for translation. Love does not need words to be explained. The true question we should be asking is not, what is life, but what is love?

-Love is patient,
- love is kind.
-Love does not envy,
-Love does not boast,
-Love is not proud.
-Love is not rude,
-Love is not self-seeking,
-Love is not easily angered,
-Love keeps no record of wrongs.
-Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
-Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

This is true love....it never comes to an end...True love is being with each other always and forever till the end of days

God bless and allah hafiz,

Avi

MY HEART CRIES BUT YOU DONT HEAR IT...

My heart cries, but you don’t hear it.
My heart breaks, but you don’t feel it.
My body longs to feel your arms around me.
My lips long to feel your kisses.
My ears long to hear you say I love you.
My eyes long to see your smile and eyes twinkle.
My life longs to have you in it.
My world longs to have you make it complete.
My body longs to feel you lie next to it.
My love longs to have you return it.
My heart will cry, my heart will break.
My body will go limp, my lips will only speak.
My ears will miss your words, my eyes will shed tears.
My life will be so lonely, my world will be so empty.
My love will go unreturned.
My heart aches as my life is turned inside out.
My mind will never forget, my heart will never let go.
I have loved you since the day I met you
But now my heart cries, and you don’t hear

God bless and allah hafiz,

Avi

WHEN I THINK OF YOU...

When I think of you ,
so many thoughts run through my mind .
When I don't hear from you ,
so many concerns tear at me .

Like a mighty waterfall , fierce and thundering a deafening roar -
spray enveloping everything around .
So I am sorrounded by you .

Like a babbling brook ,
slipping quietly over pebbles
gently flowing , gurguling .
Such is the peace you give me .

Like a gentle breeze ,
cooling a heated brow
caressing fevered skin .
So you calm my heart .

Like a summer sky ,
glimmering sun warming the earth
shining its light around .
So you warm my soul .

Like the birds in their trees ,
singing their happy songs
for all to hear .
So your voice cheers me .

Like a rose ,
petals opening to release
it's fragrance .
So your smile thrills me .

Like a precious gem ,
glowing , polished , rare
admired by all who see it .
So your eyes inspire me .

Like the summer grasses ,
waving gently in the breeze
inviting , fragrant , soft .
So your hair invites my touch .

Like a rare parchment ,
fine and smooth to touch
finely woven , a work of art .
So your skin delights me .

Like the pulse of Africa ,
ever present , powerful
a phenomenon unseen .
So your heart attracts me .

Everything you are
everything you do
each act of kindness
each look
every smile
every word
all combine to make me
love you more each day .

God bless and allah hafiz,

Avi

WHAT IS LOVE? I AM BLOODY CONFUSED......

When man meets woman or otherwise, both make familiar noises! The noises are never identical in quality or intent ! both believe they are in love, while both are immersed in their respective noisy mind. Their respective egos soon embark on imposing their wishes, demands, insistencies, expectations etc. This is purely directed to exploit the other and the ego is not aware of it. The mind only loves only an idea of who the other is and the not really the other! If the idea of who the other is changes, love goes out of the window. Understand that it was never love in first place, it was just an idea cherished by the noisy n egoistic mind.This is nothing but illusory love and not real love, for real love is silence and not noise! Love is a thoughtless state, for God is love and God is silence.

And when love happens between man and woman for first time, they are silent and time appears not to exist for them. This is because initially noise is absent between them. Life indicates to man to observe that love is silence, not noise. By and by, as the ego exposes its version of love, noise replaces silence and exploitation is the outcome. When intolerance gets the better of two, separation ensues and disappointment, distress and dismay is the outcome. Understand that this is the drama of love, an illusory though!

No one can fall in love of his/her own accord: love happens. The arrival of two lovers happens at a precise place and moment. This arrival is not brought about by the noisy mind. The arrival was happening to both of them uncontrallably, spontaneously and unpredictably. Understand that if they are meant to part, it only means that each one is departing uncontrollably, spontaneously, unpredictably , and no force on earth can prevent the departure, just as no force could prevent their arrival. Interpretations , however, make it appear that one of the two is responsible for the break up of love and that love has gone away.

Love never goes anywhere. Love is everywhere, so how could it go anywhere? It was never love in the first place. It was just minimal hate parading as love, and this hate is quite evident when the departure occurs! The hatred and vengeance of lovers is palpable after a break up or divorce. The departure occurs so that man may understand that his noisy mind minimally hated the other all along and it was never love. The noisy mind's function is to hate and not to love, for the mind does not know what love is.

The arrival and departure of two souls is not the control of the noisy mind. This happens so that man may taste what love is: the moment of silence that prevailed on the arrival of love. When the attention is on noisy mind , love only appears to have gone away. It has not gone away, for where could it go, as it is everywhere. Only your thoughts of love have gone into your memory bank, and will surface again when they are meant to.Similarly, understand that love appears to have gone away when the bodies have to go on their respective journeys elsewhere. This is an illusion too. When you understand this much you would thank the other for giving you an opportunity to taste real love. You would understand that the other's departure was meant to happen- a precise moment to go. You would neither accuse nor retaliate. You would have learnt what freedom is; this freedom is love.


God bless and Allah hafiz,
Avi